Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Chinese Plants and Flowers: Types and Meanings

by: Wong Yee Lee


Plum flowers are fragrant and beautiful. They were once the national flower. On the Chinese 50 cents coins you can see plum flowers on the side. 


Chrysanthemum flowers symbolizes a strong life. It is good to give old people chrysanthemum flowers because it means strong life. However, only red ones would be good because white and light yellow ones are used only at funerals. Lovers do not give chrysanthemum to their loved ones. 


Narcissus, lotus flowers and orchid are flowers which represent high virtues and elegance.


Orchid blossoms in spring and it brings an air of high class respectfulness.


Narcissus blossoms in winter. White flowers of five pedals and yellow stamen grow in pure water. It represents a sense of purity. 


Lotus flowers grow in pond water. Its roots are edible. Its flowers blossom in summer and are either red or white. The seeds are also edible and are often used as medicine. Almost every part of a lotus plant is useful though it grows in muddy pond water. That is also why it is compared to people who manage to achieve successfully in life though come from a less prestige background.



Azalea flowers represents elegance and wealth. You can find azalea on the Chinese one cent coins. 



Peach flowers blossom in spring. It represents beautiful girls. In Chinese tradition at Chinese New Year, people who want to find love will usually buy a whole plant and put it home because this will bring them luck in finding love in the coming year. 


Pomegranate gives very beautiful flowers. Its fruit is sour but contains a lot of seeds inside. In Chinese tradition, people put this fruit on the bed of the newly weds so as to help the newly weds to make many babies. 




Maple trees in China represents old people who don't admit that they are old because these trees blossoms in autumn which is near the end of a year. 

Lilac in China represents modesty, which is one of the virtues that Chinese people value 


Other than the above, there are some flowers which have medicinal values. Plum flowers can cure heat, cough and diarrhea; chrysanthemum can cure cold; orchid can cure lung disease and coughs; lotus flowers can cure sunstroke, insomnia and blood vomiting; azalea can regulate female menstruation; narcissus and Chinese rose can remove bruises; laurel can remove bruises and dissolve phlegm. 



What about giving presents?


 
When birthdays or opening a business, red Chinese rose or pomegranate flowers would be good because this represents prosperous future. 


For old people, plum flowers or tuberose would be appropriate. 


 
For patients, you can buy Orchid or China pink Bamboo.


For moving houses, you can buy Asparagus Fern. 


For wedding, you can buy lily because in China it represents hundred years of love. Lily is also good for friends which means unity. 


However there are also plants which carry derogative meanings. 


 
Poplar flowers can be easily blown broken. It represents a woman who is not faithful. 



Broad-leave epiphyllum flowers are pretty but they open just for one night. It can be easily understood that they represent shortness. 


Duckweed floats on the surface of water. It has no roots and floats anywhere. Since the Chinese nation values family and its unity, things which do not have roots would be pitiful. 


Thistles and thorns bring people pain. They represent difficulties. 
 
Now you know what to bring your date next time you take her out


Text taken from : http://www.chinatownconnection.com/chinese_plants.htm 

Sunday, November 28, 2010

Chinese Marriage Traditions

by: Wong Yee Lee


In ancient China, a man could have as many concubines as possible after the first wife. It was possible that the youngest concubine would be a teenager while the husband could be an ancient old man. Poor families sold their young daughters to rich families just because they could get some money from the rich family and also get rid of a useless female in the family.
Since 1950, the Chinese government has promulgated a law which stated that one man can only get married with one woman. It offends the law for anyone who has more than one wife.
In the past, parents arranged marriages were very common. Usually young people would have their spouse decided by their parents. Sometimes young people could only have the first look of their spouse at their wedding. It was also common that sometimes an arranged marriage could be organized even before the child was born as long as parents from both families agreed.
In modern days, things have changed quite a lot. Free love prevails and lovers can choose to get married with whoever they love. Of course, in order to show their respect to their parents, formal agreement has still to be obtained prior to any proper marriage procedure.
Even more modern, matchmakers businesses are all thriving just because sometimes people find it a bit hard to find their true love. 


Before getting married
 
Before getting married, young people have to pay a formal visit to each other's parents. When visiting the girl's parents, the boy has to bring with him the betrothal gifts in order to show sincerity. When the gifts are received, then both the boy and the girl are engaged. When the girl visits the boy's parents, the parents have to prepare a formal gift for the future daughter-in-law.
In China, usually the newly wedded couple will move to live with the boy's family. Sometimes it is not surprising to see that they will live with the girl's family. However, in these modern days, young couples would prefer to live alone without the parents if they can afford to pay for a new flat or house.
One of the wedding procedure is that the bride has to prepare a dowry to be brought to the bridegroom's family on the wedding day. A dowry is things bought by the bride's family, which includes blackest, clothes, accessories, daily necessities and etc.
What comes next is to choose a good day to hold the wedding. It is very important in the Chinese culture. A wedding, being such an important day in a person's life, has to be held on a day which symbolizes goodness. People will choose the best day based on the Chinese Lunar calendar, or on any festival days. 


The wedding ceremony 

A formal Chinese wedding requires the bridegroom to pick up the bride at the bride's home after respectfully greeted the parents-in-law to be. The couple-to-be will then go to the bridegroom's home, where the bride will greet her parents-in-law to be, or to the banquet location. If they choose to go to the bridegroom's home, the young couple will have to greet the parents-in-law to be with a A formal Chinese wedding requires the bridegroom to pick up the bride at the bride's home after respectfully greeted the parents-in-law to be. The couple-to-be will then go to the bridegroom's home, where the bride will greet her parents-in-law to be, or to the banquet location. If they choose to go to the bridegroom's home, the young couple will have to greet the parents-in-law to be with a cup of tea each and the parents will return the daughter-in-law to be with a red packet of money inside. Similar to the western culture, the bride and bridegroom will be accompanied by bridesmaids and best men and they are usually still non-married.

One very important procedure is the banquet. All relatives and friends will be invited and they will wish the new couple with all the best. At the banquet, the newly wed has to drink half glass of wine for a pair of glasses linked by a ribbon. After that the newly wed has to cross-hand and drink the other half of the wine. It is believed that after this ceremony the newly wed will love each other more dearly.

In some parts of China, the fish served in the banquet should not be eaten totally. The head, tail and the whole skeleton of the fish should be left untouched so as to symbolize a good start and end of a marriageAfter the banquet, friends of the new couple will usually continue the night by deliberately disturbing the new couple with a few games. Games will include different quests for some difficult performances or questions. Unfortunately to the newly wed that these games usually last till very late in the night!

However in the modern days, many young people try to skip most of these rituals or ceremonies. They do that either because they think that new generations should not be confined by these old traditions, or some do so just because of economical reasons of trying not to spend as much money as possible.

About the author:
Wong Yee Lee
This article was produced by Asia Dragon. Visit us at www.asiadragon.co.uk where you will find authentic oriental fashion clothing & accessories, kimonos, stylish home furnishings, furniture, beautiful ornaments, Chinese calligraphy plus much, much more!

Originally taken from :
http://www.chinatownconnection.com/chinese_marriage.htm

Saturday, November 27, 2010

Plants, Fruits, And Flowers Among Chinese People

Peony


Peony is also known as 'Mu Dan' or 'Fu Gui Hua". It represents ‘wealth, prosperity and honour’. When it flowers, it represents ‘good fortune is arriving’.


 Jing Qian Shu




‘Jing Qian Shu’ is another popular plant as its Chinese name literally means ‘Golden Money Plant’. Its shiny angular shaped leaves represent gold ingots. Therefore, having this plant at home symbolises ‘having plenty of wealth in the household’. When it flowers, it is believed that good fortune is arriving for the household. Can you spot the flower above? It looks like a white corn.

Chrysanthemum



Chrysanthemum is well liked for its vibrant and rich colour, especially its yellow flowers. Chrysanthemum signifies ‘great joy and happiness’.




Four Season Lime



‘Four Season Lime’ is known as ‘Si Ji Ju’ in Chinese. This is a very popular plant during Chinese New Year as ‘Ju’ is associated with New Year. It bears many fruits, which is called ‘Kum’ in Cantonese and ‘Kum’ literally means ‘gold’. Therefore, having a ‘Four Season Lime’ plant at home symbolises the ‘abundance of wealth’.

Peach Blossom



Peach blossom symbolises ‘courage and hope’. The blossoms burst forth at the end of winter season on a seemingly lifeless branch.


Keng Huay
 

‘Keng Huay’ is a Hokkien name. Its botanical name is known as Epiphyllum. It is considered as a lucky plant by the Chinese.  When it flowers, it signifies ‘the arrival of good luck’.


Lucky Bamboo




It is known as ‘Kai Yun Zhu’ in Chinese, which means ‘bamboo that invites good fortune’. Lucky Bamboo represents the natural 5 elements of water, earth, wood, metal and fire to balance the flow of energy or ‘chi’ in the house.  A red ribbon is tied around the stalks to represent the fire element. The number of bamboo stalks and layers has its own symbolic meaning:
  • 2 for Love & Marriage
  • 3 for Happiness
  • 5 for Perfection
  • 6 for Luck
  • 8 for Wealth and Abundance
  • 9 for Everlasting Good Fortune and Happiness
Water Narcissus


Water Narcissus signifies ‘good luck and prosperity’. If the narcissus flowers blossom on the first day of the New Year, it indicates good fortune for the rest of the year.

Tangerines and Oranges 


Tangerines and Mandarin oranges are commonly displayed in homes and shops. Tangerines symbolises ‘good tidings’ as it sounds like ‘good luck’ in Chinese.  Mandarin Oranges symbolises wealth as it sounds like ‘gold’ in Cantonese.

Guzmania Or 'Ong Lai Huay'



Guzmania is also known as 'Huang Li Hua' in Chinese. It is popular because its Hokkien name 'Ong Lai Huay' signifies the 'arrival of wealth and prosperity'. It is also popularly referred as ‘Pineapple Flower’.




Lotus Flower


Lotus Flower is greatly esteemed and cherished by Buddhist followers. Lotus represents ‘purity of body, speech and mind’, as it floats above the muddy waters of attachment and desire without being stained. It symbolises ‘purity, elegance and peacefulness’.


Fatt Chye Su’


‘Fatt Chye Su’ is another sought after plant during Chinese New Year. As the Chinese name suggest, this plant brings ‘wealth and prosperity’. When it flowers, it is believed that the owner will experience ‘good windfall luck

Taken from: Chinese New Year Decoration